There seems to be a stereotype within society that says, “If my husband ever hit me, I would leave.” There are two generally underlying assumptions behind that sentiment: 1. Physical abuse is the line most people believe they would draw when it comes to abuse and 2. Physical abuse = hitting First, I wish more […]
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I recently tried to raise awareness with a group of people that there are women at their church on Sunday who are hiding in the bathroom crying because their husband is smiling and chatting with everyone in the lobby and everyone thinks he’s just great. But she knows that the image he portrays at church […]
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Sometimes I post in-depth articles on a certain aspect about domestic abuse. Today I want to give a general overview of 31 things Christians need to know about domestic violence. Each of these points deserves elaboration, which I will not do for sake of brevity. However, I hope they will spur your thinking and motivate […]
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When the movie War Room came out in 2015, right away I began seeing lots of articles and even products for sale along the lines of “War Room Prayers to Pray for Your Cheating Husband” or “War Room Prayers for Marriage Restoration”, “War Room Prayers for Your Troubled Marriage”, etc. I didn’t pay much attention […]
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A while back, Focus on the Family shared a series of articles on their Facebook page regarding how wives can meet their husband’s sexual needs. Focus on the Family is an organization that many people look to for what they believe is good, Biblical advice about marriage and family. The problem, though, is that much […]
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When a woman* finds that her husband is not a safe person either physically or emotionally, the biggest question I often see her struggle with is, “What now? Divorce is not an option. I made vows before God, and I must keep them.” This is a personal question that each person must answer individually before […]
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I have bad news and good news. The bad news is that many churches do not do a great job of supporting domestic abuse victims. Even those who express a desire to help have often failed to accomplish that. (I wrote a guest post for my friend Rebecca Davis that explores some of the reasons […]
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Several people have requested me to take a look at Created to Be His Helpmeet by Debi Pearl and offer my thoughts. This is not a complete review of the book by any means; however, these are some of the more blatant examples of the ways Debi Pearl’s teachings enable abuse in marriage. 1. Debi […]
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I can be pretty hard on a lot of Christian marriage books, blog posts, webinars, etc. (Note: I’m not here to be hard on the author himself/herself. I assume that an author has good intentions unless there is proof otherwise. Critiquing the content is different than critiquing the person, and it’s the content I’m here […]
Continue readingCorrie ten Boom and her family resisted the Nazi invasion of the Netherlands by hiding Jewish people in their home. Unfortunately they were discovered and arrested. Eventually Corrie and her sister Betsie were sent to the Ravensbruck concentration camp. Ravensbruck was a work camp, where the prisoners were literally worked to death. 96,000 women died […]
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